They say that if it's in you, it's OK. They say it's not the same. I know that we're always reforming. It's mutual. It's natural. It's in our blood. You can never be the same person wherever you go. We have many masks. One for every place. I have my mask for friends, my mask for commitments. Only on special and significant (probably crucial only to me) moments, I reveal my real face. And the most terrible things happen when the masks fall.
Then we let ourselves recede. I tried to help many people relax and get the point. I didn't make it happen.
Overreach yourselves. Try.