Just like this. Eveybody needs to do everything by themselves. When you need something to be done you should do it alone. Even people's concern and help (which is always very great) can't do something for you. You must do it yourself.
And even this 'always should be someone you really love'' that Blur sing, doesn't feel right. Because even in the Whi.Co. you can't speak loudly of what you want and what you need to be done. And then you can't clearly ask someone's help, because you have to stay quiet, in order not to bother anyone. So, what did I say? You're now on your own.